Who are you? Defining one's self is a lifelong exploratory process. If you are able to slow down and find quiet, you will grow. Explore, discover, observe, and reflect. Open your mind to the wisdom of great thinkers and teachers. Evolve your own philosophy of life, not a culturally defined one. Seek, find, and live by your deepest truths.
If they are virtues, they will radiate outward and benefit humanity.